Treat or Treat

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 31, 2007

On account of being raised Jehovah's Witness, I have to admit that I was quite excited about doing the very first Trick-or-Treating of my entire life tonight with Freya. However, I knew she might not be all that jazzed about it, since she isn't the most sociable of toddlers. Turns out I was right--after 15 minutes of talking, I finally got her into her costume by pointing out that we'd be going over to see her dearest friend, Kaie, across the street to show him her lion costume. We scored a bag of Whoppers, then started out for the next house. Freya dragged her feet, said, "Right there!" and pointed at our house, and pretty much made it clear she was done with the festivities for the night.

Her Montessori class went and T-or-T'ed the little old lady who lives across from the school today, and her teachers told me it was a similar reaction. So...maybe next year. Maybe I need a costume too!

So I'll leave you with a question and a picture:

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What really scares you? Me, it's Bigfoot and those damn flying monkeys from the Wizard of Oz. So it was especially awful today when I was talking Bigfoot stuff with my boss and he started telling me about a guy he knew who was working on a forest fire in Alaska and he and his crew of Native folks heard a grisly, terrifying screaming coming out of the darkness in the middle of the night. The Natives, who were Athabascans, told him it was, "the Monkey People," and it scared them all so badly that they ended up making up a story about a grizzly bear terrorizing their camp and called in a helicopter to fly them out.

Monkey People...I may not sleep tonight. So again, what really, really scares you?

The Frost is on the Pumpkin

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 28, 2007

There was actually frost on the windshields of the cars parked on our street this morning. This is actually pretty doggone late for our first frost. (Damn you, global warming...) I pulled up the pathetic remnants of my pathetic garden on Saturday and chucked most of it on the compost heap in the hopes that it will ultimately break down to one day feed a more successful crop.

On Saturday, Freya and I went out to Spyglass Gardens, the farmstand I've posted about frequently over the past few months. This is the last weekend they'll be open until spring, which is a huge bummer. We spent quite a while visiting the "kitchens" and the proprietors' dog, Morgan. He's a big golden retriever that Freya has just fallen in love with. If I ask her, "Freya, do you want to go to the farm?" she immediately starts chatting about the kitchens, Morgan, and going with Grandpa. My dad usually tags along with us on our visits, so it is funny that Freya associates him so closely with poultry.

Anyway, it has been easy this summer to eat locally. It's about to get a lot tougher. I put up a lot of freezer jam, I've got probably 10 quarts of spaghetti sauce frozen, and enough frozen shredded zuchinni for half a dozen loaves. But that's not much to have stored. I know we'll have to make some concessions over the winter.

So I'm sure most of you are familiar with the title of this post. My fifth/sixth grade teacher (school was so small that we had both classes in one room) introduced us to this poem, along with many other things--premenstrual syndrome that needed medication and didn't receive it was another thing that was new to many of us and she handily provided. So the poem is by James Whitcomb Riley, and I pulled it from Bartleby.com.

WHEN the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock,
And you hear the kyouck and gobble of the struttin' turkey-cock,
And the clackin' of the guineys, and the cluckin' of the hens,
And the rooster's hallylooyer as he tiptoes on the fence;
O, it's then the time a feller is a-feelin' at his best,
With the risin' sun to greet him from a night of peaceful rest,
As he leaves the house, bareheaded, and goes out to feed the stock,
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock.

They's something kindo' harty-like about the atmusfere
When the heat of summer's over and the coolin' fall is here.
Of course we miss the flowers, and the blossoms on the trees,
And the mumble of the hummin' birds and buzzin' of the bees;
But the air's so appetizin'; and the landscape through the haze
Of a crisp and sunny morning of the airly autumn days
Is a pictur' that no painter has the colorin' to mock
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock.

The husky, rusty russel of the tossels of the corn,
And the raspin' of the tangled leaves as golden as the morn;
The stubble in the furries--kindo' lonesome-like, but still
A-preachin' sermuns to us of the barns they growed to fill;
The strawstack in the medder, and the reaper in the shed;
The hosses in theyr stalls below--the clover overhead!
O, it sets my hart a-clickin' like the tickin' of a clock,
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock.

Then your apples all is gethered, and the ones a feller keeps
Is poured around the cellar-floor in red and yaller heaps;
And your cider-makin's over, and your wimmern-folks is through
With theyr mince and apple-butter, and theyr souse and sausage too!
I don't know how to tell it--but ef such a thing could be
As the angels wantin' boardin', and they'd call around on me
I'd want to 'commodate 'em--all the whole-indurin' flock
When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder's in the shock.

Field Trip

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 25, 2007

Freya and I went on our first school field trip today! The Montessori kids, teachers, and quite a few moms headed out to one of the local pumpkin patches. We got to take a hay ride behind a tractor, we colored, we went through a straw bale maze, and the kids got to pick their own pumpkins.

It was really a lot of fun despite the very, very cold wind. I'd probably have died of hypothermia, had another of the moms not had a spare vest to loan me. Freya seemed impervious: her only sign of any discomfort was the leaking nose. Also, she got extremely pissed off in the pumpkin patch when the vines would tangle her feet up. She was yelling, "Mommy! Freya stuck! Stuck!"

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Thanks

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 24, 2007

Thanks to all of you who were supportive in yesterday's post. (In essence, that would have been all of you who posted.) I'm generally inclined to believe the best of people--I guess it has just been long enough since I've had any contact with these ladies that I wasn't real sure what the standing of things was.

That's weird, isn't it? But I've had enough people be nice to my face that I never thought there was any sort of subcurrent there until I found out they'd been...oh...just as a for instance...suggesting to people that I was giving my boss BJs in order to be such a friend of his. (This was years ago in a different job in a different organization and has no relation whatsoever to where I am now.) So I guess there are just times where I haven't been assurred by constant contact how people may think of me.

That's a long, complicated way of dismissing any little neurosis about whether I have an outdated look, isn't it? Maybe I should look deeper into that.

A Few Random Things

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 23, 2007

It's a good thing when people say you look the same as ever, right? Right? We went out for a quick dinner tonight and ran into some women I used to work with maybe 7 or 8 years ago. We're all in the same general profession, so I've probably seen both of them a couple of times since then. But they were introducing me to another lady, and one of them said something like, "Casey worked at *this office* and then *that office* and then back to *this office." And the other one piped up and said, "And she still looks just the same!" I thought, "Hmm?" I'm reading too much into it, right? Do I need to change my look or something?

I don't blog about work, but my boss was on "60 Minutes" on Sunday and he did a great job. He's the real fire guy they interview, should you choose to watch it here. I sincerely wish he wasn't retiring the end of next week.

I guess that's only a couple of random things. Let me know what you think about changing my look.
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Off to College

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 21, 2007

Freya has spent the last five minutes climbing up onto the computer desk chair, then jockeying herself onto her tummy and lowering herself back down. After each repetition, she shoults, "Freya did it! By h'self!"

What a cool kid.

Now Auditioning for Butlers

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 21, 2007

I have been realizing lately that I take too much on during the weekends. And then I post to you guys about stewing chickens, smoking tomatoes, steaming the carpets and other crazy notions. I don't usually post about what a relaxing weekend I have had.

This is all part of a larger process of self-realization and trying to understand some of the reasons behind why I do some of the stuff I do. But that's another post for another time. Or a series of posts. Or another blog.

But as part of the New Me, I decided it was time to get a maid in here to clean this place up. I can keep up with a lot of the day-to-day stuff, and I get a lot of cleaning taken care of on the weekends, but there's stuff I just can't get to. So I hired a cleaner off of Craigslist to come in once a month and do all the "heavy lifting" kinds of things. They came for the first time this past Thursday, and I was on pins and needles to get home at the end of the day.

What a thing! This maid thing! The bathrooms are clean, the floors are mopped, the dog nose crud is off the sliding glass door. I haven't cleaned anything at all this weekend, other than changing the bed linens and towels. That's been really, really nice. And I've tried hard not to replace that cleaning time with some redirection of my energy into another project. It's been good.

Yummy

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 16, 2007

Freya is sitting on my lap watching YouTube videos and just turned to give me a kiss. How sweet!

It wasn't until the instant of contact that I realized she had snot all over her upper lip.

Oh well, I won't turn down a smooch from my sweet little kiddo. And in case you want to relive the experience vicariously, go wet down a sponge, click the video below and then give that sponge a little sugar.

Litterate

Posted by | Posted in Random Crap | Posted on October 15, 2007

Here's a meme I borrowed from Badger, and if there are typos, they're entirely her fault. Except for up here at the top of the post...

What you do is take the following list of books (the top 106 marked most often as "unread" by LibraryThing’s users). Bold the ones you've read, italicize the ones you started but couldn't finish, strike through the ones you really sort of hated, put an asterisk next to the ones you've read more than once, and underline the ones on your own personal To Be Read list.

Got it? Alrighty then.

Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell
Anna Karenina
Crime and punishment
Catch-22
One hundred years of solitude

Wuthering Heights
The Silmarillion
Life of Pi
The name of the rose
Don Quixote
Moby Dick
Ulysses
Madame Bovary
The Odyssey
Pride and Prejudice
Jane Eyre
A Tale of Two Cities
The Brothers Karamazov
Guns, Germs, and Steel: the fates of human societies
War and Peace
Vanity Fair
The Time Traveller’s Wife
The Iliad
Emma
The Blind Assassin
The Kite Runner
Mrs Dalloway
Great Expectations
American Gods
A heartbreaking work of staggering genius
Atlas Shrugged
Reading Lolita in Tehran: a memoir in books
Memoirs of a Geisha*
Middlesex
Quicksilver
Wicked : the life and times of the wicked witch of the West
The Canterbury tales
The Historian : a novel

A portrait of the artist as a young man
Love in the time of cholera
Brave New World
The Fountainhead
Foucault’s pendulum
Middlemarch
Frankenstein
The Count of Monte Cristo
Dracula
A clockwork orange
Anansi boys
The once and future king
The Grapes Of Wrath
The Poisonwood Bible

1984
Angels & Demons
The inferno
The Satanic Verses
Sense and Sensibility
The picture of Dorian Gray
Mansfield Park
One flew over the cuckoo’s nest
To the lighthouse
Tess of the D’Urbervilles
Oliver Twist
Gulliver’s travels
Les misérables
The corrections
The amazing adventures of Kavalier and Clay
The curious incident of the dog in the night-time
Dune
The prince
The sound and the fury
Angela’s ashes
The god of small things
A people’s history of the United States : 1492-present
Cryptonomicon
Neverwhere
A confederacy of dunces
A short history of nearly everything (This book would have changed my future had it been written and had I read it in high school.)
Dubliners
The unbearable lightness of being
Beloved
Slaughterhouse-five
The Scarlet Letter
Eats, Shoots & Leaves
The Mists of Avalon
Oryx and Crake
Collapse : how societies choose to fail or succeed
Cloud Atlas
The Confusion
Lolita
Persuasion
Northanger Abbey
The Catcher in the Rye
On the Road
The Hunchback of Notre Dame
Freakonomics : a Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
The Aeneid
Watership Down
Gravity’s Rainbow
The Hobbit
In cold blood : a true account of a multiple murder and its consequences
White teeth
Treasure Island
David Copperfield
The Three Musketeers

You might note that of the ones I've read, there weren't that many that I didn't put a strike through, indicating that I didn't care for them. What can I say? I have strong opinions.

This Guy Totally Whales

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 14, 2007

This might be my new favorite song.

I'll Never Learn

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 14, 2007

You know what I really, really hate? Those "self-check" registers at grocery stores.

It seems like I get sucked in all the time. I am definitely not learning my lesson. I've had nothing but negative experiences with them, and yet I have this feeling like maybe the problem is entirely on my end--that I'm just not getting it, and that if I keep after it, I'll learn to use them fluidly and will get through the check-out in minimal time.

But noooo...not in practice. Yesterday I ran into Albertson's to grab a few small items. I got to the registers, looked at the two that were open and that had about 4 or 5 people in line, then glanced over at the entirely empty self-check. "Oh, I can get through this much faster than the line with the real human being at the cashier," I thought.

So I pulled up to the stand and fumbled for at least three minutes looking for my stupid, miniscule Preferred Card so that I could get the discounts. I finally found it, scanned it, and started working through my items. Everything was going semi-swimmingly until I got to the organic grapes. I put them on the scale, then hit the button to look up their code. I found lots of grapes under G, but no organic red seedless. I went over to the O section, thinking maybe they'd be under organic. Nada.

I waited for the self-check assistant to finish helping some other poor, stupid soul, and then called her over to mine. She pointed out the code printed right on the bag. Silly me. But then she typed the code in, and "Item not found" came up on the screen. Ha! Who's stupid now? So she said, "Hang on, I've got to go push a button." She pushed it, came back, put my grapes in my bag and I was finished. I didn't realize until later that she'd just comped me the grapes. So that worked.

But start to finish, the self-check took me about 10 minutes. And that totally, totally sucks. Every time I have this happen, I swear I won't go back through one again, regardless of how long the real human being's lane is.

Do you think I'll have learned my lesson this time around? I doubt it.

Would You Like Fries with Your McMansion?

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 10, 2007

The local paper had an article about a couple here in Boise who is building a 12,000 square foot house in the foothills above town.

And the home they're moving into — with their five children aged 2 months to 16 years — will be a whopping 12,000 square feet and will cost an estimated $906,000 to build. When it's finished, the home's assessed value could be far more.

The stunning Mediterranean home with grand arches and lots of large windows will join just 16 other houses of more than 10,000 square feet in Ada County. Only one of that size exists in Canyon County.

The [homeowners] are humbled by their good fortune and try to give back — they support food banks, homeless shelters and children in need.

They're slightly embarrassed about the size of their new home, but this is the very ridge where [male home-owner's] father once vowed to build a family home, and the palatial house will be a safe haven for their family.

I have been impressed by how many readers of the paper posted comments to the story, decrying these people for building such an energy sucking monstrosity of a house. The article states that it ends up giving each person in the family their very own 1700 square feet.

So what do you all think? Are people these days entitled to build whatever size house they can afford? And that said, do you think the same thing equates for people who drive vehicles that get crappy mileage? Does your opinion change if they purchase energy offset credits from clean power businesses?

Letters to Freya: Twenty Months

Posted by | Posted in Letters to Freya | Posted on October 8, 2007

I have not been looking forward to you turning 20 months, Freya-bug. There's something very grown-up sounding about that. You're not in your teens anymore, babywise. As I've mentioned in other posts, you seem to be interested in potty training...at least you were up until Thursday night, when you woke me by vomiting into my bra. (The dangers of co-sleeping.) You spent the next 24 hours barfing your poor baby lungs out. There's so little I can do to help you at this age: you're not able to tell me you're about to barf, and it was only at the end of things that you really started to realize what that yucky sensation meant. You'd get that "concentrating on the inner voice" look you get when you're working on a giant poo, but then you'd start to cry. And out would fly the vomit. Poor kiddo.

You're better now and we've had a long weekend together. We've spent quite a bit of time with your Grandpa T. We took him out to the farm on Saturday, then we met him at a park this morning and walked around for an hour or so. You really, really seem to love him a lot. When we pulled into the parking lot, you said, "Yay! Grandpa!" which made his day when I told him about it. You wanted your grandpa to carry you around most of the park; when he wasn't carrying you, you wanted to hold his hand. It is beautiful to see how you get along with him and you certainly hold his heart in the palm of your little hand.

You start another week in Montessori tomorrow, and you're already excited. The night before school days, you usually start going through all the kids' names: you talk about Hannah, Riley, Bryce, Carson, etc. from about dinner time until you fall asleep. Things are going really well there for you.

You definitely work the toddler tantrums still, but we're dealing with it. Since you're so darned sweet about 90% of the time, we can weather the other 10% of the time. And speaking of the dangers of co-sleeping, I have a bruised cheekbone that probably causes strangers to look at me and think, "Hmmm..." You awoke me at 6:30 Saturday morning by whopping into me with your giant cranium. I think you'd got up on your hands and knees, overbalanced, and I was in your landing zone. You didn't turn a hair--just fell back to sleep. I felt like crying, and had to go ice my face. When parents make the decision to co-sleep, they hear all about how you need a bed rail, never to let the pets share the bed when the baby is in it, yadda yadda. But no one talks about how to make it safe for the parents. I honestly think that's why the bed rail is there in the first place, since I'd fall out of bed every night without that bed rail!

Anyway, welcome to your 20-somethings. We love you fifty bazillion googles.
Love,
Mama
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Today was Busy

Posted by | Posted in Goings On | Posted on October 7, 2007

I was Superwoman again today--I'm not sure why I do that to myself sometimes. So while Freya was napping, I stewed a chicken, grilled tomatoes, onions and peppers for fire roasted salsa, made three pints of huckleberry & blackberry freezer jam, and planted a dozen lily bulbs.

Whew.

Matt asked me how I managed to get all that done, and I said I can move at about Mach 7 when Freya is napping. Then he gave me a break and I went to the gym, then walked over to my new favorite coffee place for a cup of tea. Bette, the vice president of the coffee place (and I'm guessing co-owner) saw me scoping out the loose leaf tea and came over and let me sniff the varieties and told me a lot about them. Then she said that she could do a "tea tasting class" if I wanted to bring some friends in sometime. I got to thinking about it and decided that is definitely what I want to do with my girlfriends for my birthday next month. I'm going to have a tea party! Whee!

I feel like I should dress up in mary janes and a frilly party dress.

Gratuitous Nudity--Be Warned!

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 4, 2007

We borrowed a training potty from our friends across the street a while back. Freya generaly has been announcing to us when she needs her buppy changed (her word for diaper), so we go and take care of it. I've been resistant to look too deeply into potty training: I think I have a subconscious aversion to it because if she is potty trained, then she's not a baby anymore. I guess.

But she's been pulling the potty out and sitting on it lately with her pants on. I've asked if she'd like her pants off and the answer has always been no. But tonight, well, she took her own pants off and asked me to take her buppy off. Then she sat on the potty. She didn't do anything from there, but I think it is time to face facts. She's growing up and evidently wants to go potty like some of her Montessori friends do.

I'm not exactly looking forward to this. Anyone have any tips to share?
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Never Too Early to Plan for Disaster

Posted by | Posted in Somebody's Mom | Posted on October 2, 2007

I got Freya a cute little lion costume online a few months ago, preparatory to Halloween festivities. It goes over clothes and is furry, and has a hood that goes up over her head and acts as the mane. (I'm describing this terribly, aren't I? It's like a hollowed-out stuffed animal worn as a hooded vest. Is that any better?)

I'm a little worried that she'll refuse to wear it. Not worried about it financially, but her Montessori is having a costume day and I'm really hoping she'll tolerate it for a little while for the cuteness factor. They're all going to go trick-or-treat the nice old lady who lives across from her school.

But I'm thinking, maybe I need a back-up costume option. If I put her in the lion and she hates it, it would be good to have an alternative, right? What would you do? Would you put her in the costume early and let her get used to it? Or would you just wait until right before she goes into school, and then have something more like clothes as a back-up? Also, let me know if you have something like that in a 2T and want to loan it out...